Imagine waking up one day, and seeing that although everything around you looks, sounds and smells exactly the same as the day before – except everything is different. Everything.
There are moments in our lives that break our story into chapters. Before the baby and after the baby, while we still have a loved one and after they pass, being in a good relationship and then heartbreak, in a bad relationship and then freedom. We have dozens of these life-altering moments and they don’t just change our lifestyles, they change us on a biological and even a cellular level.
To think that through all of those changes, our sexuality would stay the same is absurd.
What to do when everything changes
Let’s be clear – keeping up with our sexuality is difficult even when things are pretty normal. If we’re lucky we can keep track of what turns us on, what gets us excited, what makes us feel relaxed, what makes us feel loved.… Read the rest