“Strong is the new sexy”
“Skinny is the new sexy”
“Smart is the new sexy”
“Happy is the new sexy”
Wait… so which is it?
We can all agree that everyone is beautiful in their own way. With 6 billion people on the planet it’s likely that someone, somewhere will be attracted to the things that you are. Yet still, we are completely obsessed with understanding what the trends are in sensuality.
Everytime I come across one of these headlines, I subconsciously search for traces of my own personality in the latest trend. When I find it, the validation feels good. Really good. Like a cheap hit of self confidence. When the “new sexy” doesn’t quite fit, I quickly explain it away as a media farce.
I am still waiting for “Chubby and anxious is the new sexy”
Who’s your type?
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