If there is one resounding piece of advice I have for women who want to have better sex, it is this:
Be Aggressive. B- E- Aggressive.
Yes, that was the one thing I learned from my 3 week stint on the high school cheerleader team. And it was worth every embarrassing second.
And this shouldn’t be a shocking revelation. Every men’s magazine writes hundreds of stories on the “Best Sex I’ve Ever Had”. It always involves a woman “taking control”, standing in lingerie waiting at the door when he gets home from work, and after going down on her man, she rides him cowgirl style and boom. He gets off and falls asleep. I’m not exaggerating or trying to be stereotypical, I just read about 50 of these stories and they are essentially the same.
But where is the real power in that? There is rarely mention of a man taking the time to return the favor, or taking pleasure in how much fun she gets from the experience because from the sounds of it, she’s working her booty off while he lays there like a dead fish (if that’s what you were thinking!)
The power of taking the lead is in leveling the sexual playing field and taking control of your own erotic experience.… Read the rest