There are 2 drastically different worlds of oral sex. One world is conversational, its the way we talk about blowjobs with our friends; it’s how we tell a group of girlfriends about the great sexcapade on our last date. It’s in the way movies and magazines make it seem so fun and tell you how much EVERYONE loves oral sex but nobody is doing it right. (which is only half true)
The other world exists inside the bedroom. It is strangely more serious and involves a lot of fumbling. Oral sex is the great equalizer in relationships and makes even the most confident people feel exposed, as it strips us down to our barest selves, emotionally and physically.
I’ve realized over the last few years talking to people openly and honestly about sex, not as many people love it as you’d think, and as they should. And this isn’t just for ladies, EVEN GUYS sometimes have mediocre and outright bad opinions of oral sex.… Read the rest