Talking about anal sex is weird. At first.
But here goes.
First times are really special . Your first kiss, your first REAL kiss, the first time you got fingered in the backseat of your parent’s Subaru. These are moments that you look fondly back on for the rest of your life. But for some reason the first time you attempt anal sex is often the last time and it’s scarred in your memory as painful and embarrassing.
I’m not an anal sex expert – but I am a rare being (according to online forums) since I’ve never had a bad anal sex experience. I’ve had hilarious experiences, “meh” experiences and eventually incredibly deep/erotic/intimate experiences but there are some concrete lessons I’ve learned along the way.
1. It’s Not Me It’s You
I don’t usually badmouth men, but the backasswards expectations of guys is the #1 reason anal sex doesn’t work.… Read the rest