Here is a question most people are scared to answer.
Would you date yourself?
This can be one of the most revealing questions when you’re floundering in a relationship rut or when you are getting ready to begin dating after a heartbreak.
When you’ve been stuck, it’s easy to get caught in the fantasy of what your partner “could be” or “should be”. When you really ask yourself this question you are taking that fictional view of relationships and comparing it side by side with reality.
You’re bringing your late-night fantasy of love and looking at it in the clear daylight. Scary right?
While there are tons of people who probably don’t want to torture themselves with uncomfortable self-growth, you think this kind of thing is fun and fuck it- you’ll try anything once.
Just because you landed at a blog like this makes that true. Because you know that asking yourself the tough questions is the only way to break bad dating habits and find a relationship that makes you feel whole.… Read the rest