What do you want from sex?
No seriously, take a second and actually think about it. Do you want to feel good? Do you want to let go of the stress from your day? Do you want to reconnect with partner? Do you want to resolve some tension with your partner without having to talk about it? Do you want to sleep better? Do you want to feel empowered as a sensual man or lady?
Of all the fantastic reasons to have sex, we often act as if there’s only one. To orgasm as awesomely as possible.
We’ve been trained to think that sex always ends in orgasm. We are attached to the idea that good sex means epic orgasms and bad sex means we failed to make our partner orgasm. There’s a lot pressure put on us (usually pressure we put on ourselves) to make sure orgasms are reached. That’s simply not realistic.… Read the rest