When is it the right time to start a new relationship?
Getting back out there in the dating world, especially when you’re coming back from a long-term relationship or a major heartbreak, can feel like trying to enter a roundabout with cars going 90 mph when you’re on a bicycle.
Timing is everything.
Finding the balance between jumping into a relationship too early and waiting until we’ve missed the boat is incredibly difficult and takes some serious emotional and sexual intelligence. I believe in the art of hesitation and the importance of a finely tuned gut check before jumping into bed or jumping into a relationship. But we often use that same hesitation as an excuse for not doing anything, and we become paralyzed in over-analyzing every detail of our potential romance.
This is not blanket advice that everyone should take. This is for the Type A over-thinker. The spreadsheet people.… Read the rest