The quickie is one of the most common and exhilarating fantasies that people have (both men and women). But that’s often as far as we get with them, because frankly, they’re a logistical nightmare. With all the sneaking around, location decisions, and clothing snafus it makes most people ask: what’s the point?
The result is usually an awkward fumble in a closet or restaurant bathroom with almost none of the sexual excitement we hoped for.
I have been doing some R&D (did I mention how much I love my job) and discovered some of the missing pieces that take the quickie from a mediocre sexual experience in a strange and uncomfortable place, to the mind-blowing, sexually electrifying experience it should be.
Reframe the whole damn thing
When I shifted my perception about the quickie, it literally changed everything for me.
A 10 minute quickie is not a stand alone sexual experience.… Read the rest