Everyone has one. One terrible relationship that lasted far too long, where you made small but significant compromises over time until you sacrificed every shred of self-worth for a person that honestly, never came close to deserving it.
You gave and gave and hoped that if you figured out that one thing only YOU could give, they would eventually give you something in return, maybe even (gasp) love.
But they never do. And eventually we find ourselves completely alone, our values abandoned along the way, our spirit completely shattered. And here’s the thing that makes a Divine Asshole different from a typical relationship; we look at this person and they hardly notice that we sacrificed anything at all. They might even still be happy; because they haven’t given up a thing.
This is the most important relationship of your life: this was your Divine Asshole.
This relationship is just different. It’s not just another bad breakup.… Read the rest