I am expected to be amazing in bed. Able to satisfy a man with grace and ease and know my own sexuality better than I know the inside of my apartment in the dark.
and I do.
and It’s fucking awesome.
But how do you think women get good in bed?
Like anything else that I’m extremely good at (playing Mario Kart and cooking kale), it comes with practice. A lot of practice.
We’re expected to be amazing sexual partners, but pure and untouched. This contradiction hits us in real life and is powerful enough to make any grown woman cringe. It hits us the moment sexual history is brought up for the first time in a new relationship. The thought of revealing the number of sexual partners that got us to that point of sexual prowess is scary and intimidating. Slut shaming has reached an overwhelming high and is simply a part of our culture at this point.… Read the rest