I know it’s cliche to post about new years resolutions. But stick with me for a second.
This is the first year that I don’t have a laundry list of things to change about myself.
Maybe you think that losing 5 lbs or drinking less booze will make your 2014 completely different than last year, but it won’t. And I’m sure you’ve read a billion articles about why new years resolutions are terrible and end in failure, and what you can do to set smaller, more reasonable and manageable goals.
But I think you should do the exact opposite.
A few years ago I was a mess. I had a job I hated and was stuck in a new place with few friends and absolutely no idea what I wanted to do. I found Danielle LaPorte through a friend and I downloaded her program The Desire Map.
I didn’t even realize it until now (literally, after I started writing this blog post) but that was the first small change that made me start to think bigger, not smaller.… Read the rest