There has been tons of talk about female orgasms vs male orgasms (in my world) over the last few years. After arguing ourselves in circles, we’ve come to a definitive conclusion: It is unconstitutional and just fucking rude to have sex with a woman and not make her cum. If you are planning on having an orgasm – stop, until you can make that lady explode with orgasmic pleasure, don’t even bother.
I agree with the basic premise of this. And I’ve been lucky enough to find men who are dedicated to the philosophy (bless you boys!)
The rise of a casual-sex culture have made women’s orgasms less of a priority, and men are getting away with selfishly humping and dumping, leaving woman un-orgasmed. (if that’s word) I would say 95% of the time, the lady should come first. But there are occasions where this is simply not possible. And we need to let some of this go fear.… Read the rest